A Solution to Bad Parenting, Misguided Parenting and ‘Not Knowing What To Do’ Parenting

Creating strong loving families Empowering parents one at a time

We want parents to know that they don’t have to be confused, unsure or frustrated in parenting their children.  We definitely don’t want parents to parent out of fear; a lot of parents are doing this.  We must admit that when we see children commit serious and violent crimes and exhibit those behaviors, something is wrong.  Too often, parents are afraid; they don’t know what to do. 

In January 2007, Phyllis founded Parents the Power, LLC., a parent support organization. The objective of the organization is to empower parents by teaching and showing them how to put effective parenting skills in action. 

The goal of Parents the Power, LLC., is to create Peace in the home.  Therefore, we want to teach parents how to effectively resolve conflict and create a home environment that allows children to thrive and parents to prosper in their relationships with their children.  

In II Timothy 1:7 it states, For GOD has not given us the Spirit of fear; but of Power and of Love, and of a Sound Mind. 

Therefore, we have to teach and show parents that they have Spiritual power and love.  Too often, parents have difficulties applying their Spiritual knowledge in their lives and to parenting their children.   





DNA is a term representing the fundamentals behind outward noticeable expressions. Genetic DNA reference information carried on genes which are expressed in living organisms.  And, just like Genetic DNA, the term Household DNA represents the fundamentals of what is being expressed in and throughout households.  

The parents, through their thoughts, words, actions, beliefs, and usage of resources, decide and control the Household DNA.




The Genesis of the Parenting Pyramid

For years, I spoke about Household DNA and these 7 principles.  However, being back in the classroom at a very challenging school brought on a feeling I never felt before.  I kept asking, “Why am I here; what’s the purpose?” 

Well, the answer came to me about 3 months into my assignment.  I haven’t taught 9th graders in over 10 years.  Now, I am in a low socioeconomic school with a transient population. Additionally, for the first time I felt ‘pity’ for a student.

Pity is defined as ‘the feeling of sorrow and compassion caused by the suffering and misfortunes of others’.  I never pity about a student.


Within 1 hour after the feeling entered my heart, God put this image in me.  This image actually formed like a puzzled in my mind and spirit directed me of the order to give it to you.

One thing for sure, we must change the Household DNA in many families in order for the family and children to reach their Greatest potential and be empowered.  As a society, we are joined together as one.  Therefore, we must have a Universal Greatness in our household and in our parenting.


‘Elevating Family into a New Dimension of Greatness


Divinely given to me; divinely given to you.
                                                    ~ Queen Phyllis L-Miata                               

The Seven Essential Spiritual Principles of Household DNA
are discussed in the book: 

Permission To Be Great